My oldest son had a middle school science project due yesterday. He had to build a potassium atom. No big deal, right? It started out just fine, his project, he needed to do the work. I made him draw a picture of what he wanted it to look like and then make me a list, I would pick up the supplies while he was at school, but the project was his and he would do the work.
Easier said than done!
There is nothing more trying on the control freaks patience than watching my child work on his science project in his own unique perfectly imperfect way.
IT. WAS. HARD.
I’m not kidding you. I have never paced so much. Back in forth in the kitchen while he worked away at his project on my kitchen table. He made the protons, neutrons, and electrons out of clay which was a great way to do it… But the balls were not perfectly round and they weren’t the same size, and some of them had a crack in them, and if I could just help him a little bit… Oh boy was it hard!
But, we made it through the first night. All the protons, neutrons, and electrons had to dry overnight. I took a deep sigh of relief that we were finished with that part of the project and sent my son off to wash the clay off of his hands.
Then, night two of working on the project. All he needed to do was to paint the protons, neutrons, and electrons each in a different color and then when they were dry glue the protons and neutrons together to be the nucleus. The electrons had been formed onto the rings already and only needed painting.
Let the pacing begin back and forth, because when he painted he didn’t put enough paint on the brush, and couldn’t he see that he had missed a few spots, and oh he needed to be careful because he was bending the rings. And watch out because he might get paint on the table.
I like to be in control. What a test for me in self-control.
My kids are not going to learn to do anything for themselves if I take over every time something isn’t perfect. Self-control is a hard lesson for me, but I’m learning to let go a little more each day.
Motherhood seems to be the ultimate life-lesson for me.